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#1 Michael Bergquist

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Posted 13 November 2015 - 11:33 AM

I need serious help and fast.  My wife has been haunted by my dead mother for the past years.  My mother was abrasive when she was alive, and now she has doubled down on this personality trait.  She is in my wife's face daily and it has become a real issue between us.  It may even end in separation if we can not do something about it. 

 

My mom was a heavy smoker.  She died from lung cancer that eventually ended up in her bones.  My wife is able to smell the smoke as if someone was smoking right in her face.  It is driving her crazy.

 

If there is anyone on this site that knows what I should do about this.  I would really appreciate it. 

 

Thanks,

 

Michael



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Posted 15 November 2015 - 02:45 AM

Have the house blessed and smugged......put salt around the windows/doors and invest in an ionizing air purifier. smile.png

 

If that doesn't send her off to the light, get a medium in.


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Posted 19 November 2015 - 04:51 PM

Also, get an inspector in to check for drafts to rule out any passing smoker's crud getting in that way, and get physicals/mental health checks for both of you.It'll help rule out any health problems that may be contributing to this.


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Posted 21 November 2015 - 10:45 PM

Also, get an inspector in to check for drafts to rule out any passing smoker's crud getting in that way, and get physicals/mental health checks for both of you.It'll help rule out any health problems that may be contributing to this.

 

Well, there is that.......

 

You could also repaint the interior of the house to kill any lingering smoke smells.

 

You know women... they smell stuff men can't. 

 

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Posted 22 November 2015 - 01:39 PM

Sometimes schiesse some other women can't. 


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Posted 23 November 2015 - 09:50 AM

Keep in mind that if she was a heavy smoker this would have permeated into the walls / rafters / structure of the house.  As such it will work its way back out over time and could continue for years.   That could account for why your wife continues to smell this.  The good news is that this odor will not cause direct health problems, only the discomfort of the odor. (Not actual smoke or tars in the odor)   You will likely find this is worse when the house is closed up or humidity is high.

 

As mentioned previously, repainting will help, also replace any carpets or curtains that may have been present when the smoke was thick.  These hold the smell as well.  Beyond that air purifiers or deodorizers is best solution.  Not paranormal and she is not haunted!







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