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#1 Loulabelle1981

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Posted 29 February 2016 - 09:44 AM

My daughter is 3 and for the last few months she has been talking to npeople who aren't there. At first I thought it was just what kids do but now she's talking about "scary lady" who she doesn't like. When she sees scary lady in the living room my sdaughter often ends up in tears and refuses to go in that room. Now she's saying scary lady doesn't like mummy and wants to hurt mummy. That's not normal right? Or is this just a kid with a good imagination? When I asked where scary lady was the other day my daughter said " she's climbing up the curtains behind you with blood coming out." She often says scary lady has blood on her face. I am totally freaked out. Should I ignore this and hope it goes away? Help!

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Posted 02 March 2016 - 12:13 AM

Having no experience dealing with a frighted child myself I can not begin to imagine how you must be feeling now.

 

My first thought would be to rule out any chance that someone may have allowed your daughter to see a scary movie or imagery.

(This is not to be taken as a suggestion that you are lacking as a parent. I myself would sneak out to watch TV from a hidden vantage point when my parents though me to be in bed sleeping. This included some scary movies.

 

My second step would be to rule out any type of trauma. A child dealing with trauma will not have the words to explain what has happen, the expression of there confusion or anger about it can manifest all sorts or way's. Even the "scary lady is coming to get you".

This is a horrible thing to consider but if she has created a monster that is threatening you, you may want to take a close look at people you have allowed to be alone with her. Traumatized children don't generally lash out at the offender.      

 

My third step would be to investigate the house and its history. Did something terrible occur on the property?

 

I wish you and your daughter all the best.


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Posted 14 March 2016 - 05:23 PM

Definitely seconding Atropa's suggestions. Also, to reassure both yourself and your daughter, have your home and yourselves blessed, saged and get salt lines across outside doorways and windows and tell her not to disturb them as they're placed there to keep the scary lady out.


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Posted 15 March 2016 - 05:25 PM

Definitely seconding Atropa's suggestions. Also, to reassure both yourself and your daughter, have your home and yourselves blessed, saged and get salt lines across outside doorways and windows and tell her not to disturb them as they're placed there to keep the scary lady out.

 

 

Ditto.....

 

And keep a spray bottle of holy water around to spray the area where your daughter sees the "scary lady". Even if you personally think it's all BS at least the kid sees you being proactive and not letting her be a victim without trying to help as best you can. Spray your kid too when things get real bad.


Edited by loganinkosovo, 15 March 2016 - 05:26 PM.

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Posted 15 March 2016 - 07:18 PM

 

Definitely seconding Atropa's suggestions. Also, to reassure both yourself and your daughter, have your home and yourselves blessed, saged and get salt lines across outside doorways and windows and tell her not to disturb them as they're placed there to keep the scary lady out.

 

 

Ditto.....

 

And keep a spray bottle of holy water around to spray the area where your daughter sees the "scary lady". Even if you personally think it's all BS at least the kid sees you being proactive and not letting her be a victim without trying to help as best you can. Spray your kid too when things get real bad.

 

Ah, forgot about the holy water when I posted. Thanks for adding that! 


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Posted 16 March 2016 - 04:46 AM

You are most welcome.  :)


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