I am so sorry for your loss. Deaths are often traumatic.
Loved ones often visit in dreams; that is their way of communicating.
You are correct about the ouija board and I'm glad you're not using it.
All you really needs to do is talk to him. He will hear you. 
Thankyou, and thankyou for the reply.
Very weird day yesterday me and his daughter who's (13) who he sadly left behind tried contacting him. Just basic method's asking etc. We had a family joke about who make's the tea and coffee everytime someone come's round so we asked if my brother who passed would turn the kettle on and amazingly two time's the kettle clicked down to boil after asking him. It takes quite some force to push it down.
Secondly my family and i was all in the living room discussing what could have happened in the last moment's before he died as he was in essex and we was in kent. Suddenly we heard my brothers voice say his daughters name ( leyla ) extremely clearly and in the same voice tone he used to use. I think it was him letting her know he's alright as she was crying at this time. We also heard humming of the film ( ghost ) theme tune which we was actually talking about minutes before.
He's here with us watching over us for sure.
Edit: We also tried to capture orb's after asking if he was here with us, with some amazing result's. I'll post them if any member's would like to see.
Edited by ParanormalOuija, 10 January 2011 - 10:37 AM.
Rest in peace brother, We'll meet again one day. <3