Most of the times the focus shifts to what we discuss upon rather than why we are discussing it! Strange ways human mind works!
After awhile you would just would get sick of arguing about something that only mattered to yourself and you end up spending more time defending your own beliefs than you do actually working together to try and solve something or getting a correct answer, by then you forget what the whole point was, lol ;D
That is a great attitude, but even after giving so much of space for others, if they are trying to run you up against the wall, I guess most people will surely fight back!
I respect everyones oppinion and I can see great reasoning on both sides. I personally feel this way, I believe in the paranormal and that something is out there, what exactly I dont know. Do I want to prove it, I would love to, but cant.