Relationships, where's the priority?
Posted 05 June 2003 - 11:51 AM
Posted 05 June 2003 - 04:04 PM
It breeds trust, because after all, Being able to be who you are, without fear of not being loved is the key to being honest with yourself and others.
If we allow those we have relationships with to simply be who they are and either take or leave them on that basis , it eliminates alot of deception and hurt. :-/
Posted 05 June 2003 - 10:18 PM
Posted 05 June 2003 - 10:39 PM
Hi, Rock, an excellent answer and someday I hope to find that special someone
Posted 06 June 2003 - 05:29 AM
I think the core of a good relationship starts with attachment. When a child is born they are unattached to the mother so to speak, they become attached over time. Just as a relationship your attachment to a certain person comes from the building of the relationship and the good times and bad. You have to need the person your with to a degree in order to treat them with respect when making discissions based on honesty, if you dont need them your more likely to be dishonest, if you value them and need them then you will do your best to spare your partners feelings. But everyone will fail at some point and the the very thing you will perceive as a lie can often turn out to be just an oppinion of your partners and without time you will not be able to rationalize their thinking for feeling this way ??? Okay i have been sick and am feeling alittle spacey so befor I confuse anyone anymore I will hush, lol But here is my breakdown on relationships;
1. Physical attraction (gotta have it for the bedroom, if not now in a couple of years lol)
3. Value of the person
6. Motive (most people have one)
Posted 06 June 2003 - 04:15 PM
Posted 07 June 2003 - 02:29 PM
Its all about sex.
I told him that I did not want to be his girlfriend, dont want to hang out with him. This might sound kinda mean but it worked.
We have been together for 5 years. Its perfect.
Posted 18 June 2003 - 06:47 PM
Yes, sex is probably number two behind the ability to understand the other person.
Posted 18 June 2003 - 08:11 PM
Posted 20 June 2003 - 01:15 PM
Ghosthunter_Girl, I think you hit it, you really can't love another or allow yourself to be loved without loving yourself first
Posted 24 June 2003 - 07:15 PM
Posted 24 June 2003 - 08:37 PM
but since I am a man, WARMTH (can be hot too )
Posted 25 June 2003 - 04:52 AM
Posted 25 June 2003 - 05:16 AM
I enjoy intelligence, I don't like talking to a rock,
Then I have to like them, this can take some time,
Then I must be able to trust them,
Since of humor is a must, you gotta make me smile,
Good sex is always a plus,
I have to learn to love you,
Then when it comes that nothing else matters but you, then we have it made.
Of course a fishing boat and owning a liquor store can make it all worthwhile, J/K ;D
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