Relationships, where's the priority?
Posted 25 June 2003 - 06:19 PM
Hi, Willow, Very well said, my friend and I think you hit a crucial point, I've known a few people-both sexes-who tried to re-make the other person into their own ideal image*dress like this, talk like this and wear your hair like that*usually this brought the relationship to a very abrupt close. Thank you for mentioning that, Hun ;D 8)
Hi, Cajun, well said*Um, maybe a hunting lodge instead of a fishing boat* ;D
Posted 25 June 2003 - 06:29 PM
Posted 26 June 2003 - 09:41 AM
In many cases, men claim they like smart, strong women with a good sense of humor and an open mind. However, they don't understand how to deal with a woman like that (proving quite amusing as I watch melodramas unfold) and promptly make themselves into a victim (even more amusing since they're looking for sympathy). Sometimes, it seems men just want a beautiful woman who likes everything they do and reflexively agree with everything they say and do as well as provides sex as often as they want it and whenever they want it.
These aren't just gripes - I fully blame myself for my lack of love life due to a lack of sparkling personality. I just seem to play counselor to my friends' an awful lot and have based my opinion on observations.
Posted 26 June 2003 - 01:15 PM
I have found real quick that you can not change a person, you can help them on there way with support if they have the will to change but only then.
Hmm... Hunting lodge.... that could be a fair trade off.
Posted 28 June 2003 - 08:14 AM
Posted 28 June 2003 - 02:58 PM
and hear about. I think its a matter of perspective, my friend, I'd rather have insight than a high pitched giggle
or hair flipping and would rather have someone that could debate the meaning of life with me 'til dawn than someone who will instantly agree with everything I say.
Cajun*LOL*As long as you're not snake or gator hunting I'm in ;D Man, I'm sorry to hear that, I've had 2 g/f's that were the same type and neither relationship lasted longer than 4 months, it just wore on me that she/they agreed with everything and it came to the point that I'd be making up totally left field stuff and sure enough she agreed
Posted 03 July 2003 - 08:44 PM
Posted 04 July 2003 - 02:54 AM
I really love Sharon, she has given me 5 of the happiest years of my life! ;D
Posted 08 July 2003 - 01:05 AM
As for the best friend/lover thing, well, you best friend will not necessarily turn into a lover, but (at least in my case) my lover turned into my bestfriend & I think THAT is perfect (at least 4 us) And yes (lol) we argue, who doesn't, but BAD_WORD! Ain't makinn up fun??!!! ;D
Posted 15 July 2003 - 11:56 AM
Posted 15 July 2003 - 01:10 PM
Posted 15 July 2003 - 01:27 PM
If your going to air our dirty laundry here atleast tell it right! I had no problems with your opinions and you know it! I would appriciate it if you would not talk about me or our relationship on the posts here. Do what you want in private messages I don't care. The people who know "us" will know the truth and not just your half truths. Enough Said!
Posted 15 July 2003 - 02:01 PM
Posted 15 July 2003 - 02:14 PM
Posted 15 July 2003 - 04:51 PM
Easy does it cowboy.
Relationships have their uses. Without love , we live a very lonely existence. Im certain that if you want things to work out and your counterpart feels likewise , anything can be sorted out. Sometimes it takes awhile for tempers to cool before the real cause of the issues that ignited said anger can even be discussed.
I have found that kindness goes a long way. Believe me I have been the brunt of the issue and have had the rolls reversed. Either way deciding what the relationship means to you and what your going to do about it is all that matters.
I wish you both well and if there is anything way I can be of assistance please let me know.
P.S. Peace and love is found through compromise.
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