Complete new'b but some questions about dreams.
Posted 27 August 2012 - 05:38 PM
I have always had a facination with the supernatural but have never explored it, probably due to being scared as to what I may find out. Anyways I have have had 2 experiences 15 years apart but it is the last one last night that has made me join this forum and ask the question.
I was bought up by my grandparents and lost my grandmother when in 1998 when I was 15 I was present when she died but never got to say goodbye when she was alive and for a period of time I had an overwhelming feeling of guilt. My grandmother worked nights and I'd often get up for school and she would be eating her dinner in the chair in her dressing gown, 1 night a few months after her death (i forget how long exactly) I had a dream that I came downstairs and she was there in her dressing gown, I knew she was dead but it was strange, we said nothing at all to each other just had a cuddle and I remember in the dream crying like I have never cried before, when I did wake in the morning around 7am I was actually sat downstairs in the chair and not in bed, I do remember having an enormous sense of relief, I have since had dreams that my grandmother was in however none quite like that one.
The second dream I had was last night. I lost my grandad last sunday morning after a long illness, last night I had a dream we were in his living room (the same room I previously dreamt about) and he was dressed in his coat, I again even in the dream knew he had already passed away but he told me that the doctors had told him they were going to stop treating him and that he was scared this would be his last night alive (I find this strange as well as he was an incredibly closed man with feelings etc) I gave him a hug and promised him I would take care of my mum and later woke up in tears....
Again I cant claim to have ever seen a ghost my only other experiences have been an overwhelming feeling that someone was e.g on a landing with me or behind me on stairs and I have had to leave that room immediately.
anyways thank you for taking the time to read and your thoughts would be appreciated, I am fully aware these may just be natural dreams that occur during grief.
Posted 28 August 2012 - 02:55 PM
So sorry for your losses. I recently lost my sister that I was very close to, and had one of those dreams three nights after she passed away. Also had a dream of my grandmother a while ago that was one of "those" dreams. I really think that if they appeared to me in spirit, while I was fully awake, it would have startled me too much even though I fully believe in the afterlife. So makes me believe that what you experienced was truly a gentle visit.
There are dreams, and there are special dreams that are truly visits from our loved ones. You'll know the difference.
Blessings to you.
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